Time flies very quickly, and life is full of hassles. New school year brings additional responsibility to parents. Often every first day in the new school year, parents can hear from their son or daughter, "I don't want to go to school!".
If at the beginning of the school year it may be perceived as an unwillingness to part with the summer and the joys of summer, but during the year, such statement may indicate that a child have problems in school.
Occasionally you will hear: "I do not want to go to school!" from first-grader. Especially at the beginning of the school year. At school he was waiting for new friends - classmates, happy new role, and a brand new backpack, and colorful notebooks, and is easy to learn. Usually this continues, according to the observations of psychologists, before the winter holidays.
By the end of the first semester of teaching material becomes more complex, tasks - even more, and the hard work for several months makes itself felt of some fatigue. The motivation of the student becomes almost zero. Every school year, it seems that this problem is only getting worse. What is the reluctance of your son or daughter to go to school?
1. Misunderstanding of some topics of the material or a subject at all. Unlearned or misunderstood paragraphs of the textbook, like a snowball, piled on the student by grabbing on its way more and more topics. What might be interested in a person who does not understand anything, and should listen every day a strange information? At the same time, all the time you have to be in suspense, waiting to see what you can called to the board.
2. Relationship problems with classmates. Particularly painfully it perceived by teens. Children are sometimes very cruel. Therefore reluctance every morning to go to class can be not just simply petty grievances or altercation. Maybe your son or daughter is subjected to regular persecution or abuse.
3. Conflicts with teachers due to poor academic performance and behavior, or for any other reason.
What to do?
First aid for your pupil - it's your participation, acceptance and, if necessary, the sympathy that he experiences. It happens that a child does not always tell you directly about the problems. He must be sure that you will not let you down, ready to listen and to accept openly. Persistence and excessive persistence can not help trusting relationships between parents and children. Sometimes your child may tell you some stories about their friend or girlfriend, describing unpleasant situation. Perhaps with this your child wants to get your attention, but in reality the situation was happening to him or her.
If you realize that the reason for the reluctance to attend classes - gaps for some subjects, it is necessary to help a child, spent time explaining the material independently or using the custom services.